THE HEART OF LIFE IS GOOD INDEED!!!!

Heath Ledger is dead. A very close ka tropa will soon be leaving for Singapore for the silver lining. And soon each of us will be quiting our jobs to go back to where we came from or to go to other places we've never been to before. Time can be cruel. Love can be hurtful. The thought of each of us starting over again is something scary but that's reality. I know we'll eventually find other gangs to hang out with and we'll all be reduced to mere names in each others' phonebooks. Faces of memories. Of time long ago. Of music, of beer bubbles, of merry chatters.

This is exactly what i hated most about meeting new friends. Long ago i used to be not so emotional about friendships because i've always known it'll eventually end as reality always does. i've learned to be weak since then and opened myself to being emotionally attached to people i'll eventually part with. i've accepted reality, i've learned to enjoy each moment because what is life made of? moments of course. and maybe this time i'll shed a tear or two-for the first time.

Lipon Anduyo Percussion Ensemble

Just saw this group perform in SM Cebu Northwing today...i must say they are simply cool. People actually stopped and listen. i stayed until they were done. it would've been cooler if the place was set for the performance but then again its a mall so the percussion wouldnt be as nice as say outdoors or the concert hall. anyways i wonder if they can make a performance where in they can let the audience participate aside from the usual clapping... anyways they were cool. not the usual guitar and drums set up...i love variety in music...

bucket list

i'm going on a road trip this year.

to bleed or not to bleed...

"to bleed or not to bleed. that is the question. and it is your decision."

i have this girlfriend who loves to fall in love. but then when the dude she falls for will express interest she would dismiss it as mere "pasakay". she ignores them and when they stop pursuing she'd get heartbroken. isnt it just plain stupid? thats why i dont get girls sometimes. they or rather, we confuse me. i'm tired of dishing out unsolicited advices on love and all that shit. i havae more shit to deal with. i dont ask for advice when it comes to my heart-related woes. i have me to admonish myself.

and right now i'm also overwhelmed with this decision about my work and my life as a whole. i want to my life to be under control it doesnt have to be by me. a Higher Being is needed in this case. i just want to stop living on the edge. i want it to be controled least i'll end up dead. *sigh* how i wish my woes are as simple as heartbreaks. i'd replace my current woe for a million heartbreaks and i'd still chose the latter. i'm sick of being me at this point. i just want to undo the tangles i caught myself in. that's all. please give me a million heartbreaks instead!!!

the smoke has cleared (somewhat)

later today i had this realization of what i want to do this year. i realized i wanted to taste what it's like to be a real teacher. i want to teach college this year. that's why i'm determined to take Masters. Preferably something that deals with Literature. I'm excited.

that realization hit me while i was browsing the classical literature section of National Bookstore. I figured i want to feel the excitement of discussing the writing that awakens the human side of me. i want to be mentally stimulated again. i want to focus on something that i really love. that is learning something new. i think i'll forever be a student. seeking to learn more as i get on with life. and for me to that the only job that will allow me that luxury is teaching. there' s just no other way.

so i figured that i must start checking on schools that offers something related to Lit. something i can attend this year. i'm really excited. i hope for the best.

it maybe wierd now but i seem to miss school. will at least those subjects i love anyway...

what's on the next bend?

i went to have a urine test yesterday. if i'm pregnant that should confirm it. but i dont think i am. i think i'm just freaking out prematurily but i'm just making sure. the thing is that everytime i think of the possibility of being pregnant right now really makes my gut jump up my throat. anyways... i'll be waiting for the result and i hope for the best and i'll never ever again subject myself to this delimna again. i'll be using condoms...joke... i'm saying no to sex until the right time comes from now on.

anyway...i'm excited about quiting my job because that would mean i'll have the time to start a business probably back home. i wasnt really sold on going back home but i think i have to. my life is spinning out of control in here. the job is killing me. the pay doesnt even matter anymore. i have plans for the next few months...my target date would be march 15...by then its quits for me here... its uncertain what's gonna happen to me without a job but i'm saving up for it. right now i'm carefully planning out my fall back...

advantages of being ugly...

i am not visually pleasing. to put it bluntly i'm ugly. it didnt bother me much since i have a mom who says i'm beautiful. even if i know it is said out of her innate maternal blindness when it comes to this matter i believe her anyway.

highschool is the real training ground for the real world. its where you'll find out that its advantagious for one to be visually pleasing. it gets you to high and far places. but of course as we all know most of these gifted people doesnt have much brains in their heads. take my older brother for example. he is the ultimate crush ng bayan. he is tall, artistahin-looking, even got a band. but what ticks me off is that he was totally brainless back then. he takes more time to groom himself up than to actually tickle his brains to work. anyway good thing for him his learn to use his brains now and buy books during payday.

i once told him if i was born with his face and my brains i'm probably off to some far and high places by now...anyways...

people said most of the ugly ones like are smart because they have nothing else to boast about. like some sort of making up for what we lack. will, not really. the reason we took to filling up our brains is that since we dont spend much time looking at ourselves in the mirror or staying in public places for the purpose of being seen, we opted to reading books and learning stuff by ourselves instead.

sometimes i thank the heavens i'm born ugly. i'd rather be ugly than without brains. but sometimes though i took to not using my brains at all. i can see that in my past entries. anyways this must be one of those days that i feel smart and ugly...

new year new start?

its 2008. so what's up with it? it used to be that i never really thought about new years. of the year past drawing to a close and a new one dawning but now i do. i guess its a sign of aging but i really am seriously considering this. i view 2008 as year to finally grow. meaning being accountable for my actions. admitting that i have control over my actions and its effects. that i have the choice to choose. that i'm now an adult and live with it. that i am on my own now. and that running home to mama is not a choice anymore. i vow this year to be different. if 2007 was a year of missed opportunity, 2008 will be a year of opportunity taking. if 2007 is coated in mistakes, 2008 will be a year of starting over. if 2007 is a year of reluctant adulthood, 2008 will be a year of embracing it. if 2007 is a year of fear, 2008 will be a year of defeating it. this year will be my rebirth. i promise that things will be different for this year. this year will be different like no other years that passed.